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The Helper Can Ask

The hand he so readily offered others was one he could accept, too.

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When preparations began, Jin was the first to offer a hand.
Jin

I'll carry those folders.

When preparations began, Jin was the first to offer a hand.

Sharing the task made preparation a little lighter.
Ara

Thanks. Let's set them out here together.

Sharing the task made preparation a little lighter.

The words came easily after the gathering, too.
Jin

I'll take care of the rest of the cleanup.

The words came easily after the gathering, too.

Papers and empty boxes waited on every table.
Jin

There's more left than I thought…

Papers and empty boxes waited on every table.

Working alone, he could barely see the end.
Story

As soon as one box was sorted, another table came into view.

Working alone, he could barely see the end.

He picked up his phone, then lowered it again.
Jin

Should I ask someone to join me…?

He picked up his phone, then lowered it again.

After putting away the cups, Ara came back through the door.
Ara

You're still here. Shall we tidy up together?

After putting away the cups, Ara came back through the door.

He pointed to what remained and said what was on his mind.
Jin

I'm so used to helping. Asking feels a bit strange.

He pointed to what remained and said what was on his mind.

For a moment, he could set aside the role of always being the helper.
Ara

You don't have to finish alone. Where can we start?

For a moment, he could set aside the role of always being the helper.

Instead of a vague apology, he named a small task.
Jin

Could you help me with just this table, then?

Instead of a vague apology, he named a small task.

Boxes and papers were shared between two pairs of hands.
Story

This time, Ara offered a hand and Jin accepted it.

Boxes and papers were shared between two pairs of hands.

The person who gave help could also be the person who received it.
Jin

Next time, let's split it up from the start.

The person who gave help could also be the person who received it.

A thought from the Talmud

Someone who helps others may also need a hand held out to them.

The source idea in our own words · Not a direct quotation

Berakhot 5b:10–13 · Read the source ↗

A lesson for today

When you are used to helping, speaking about your own difficulty can feel awkward. See who is available to work with you, break the task into smaller parts and make a specific request. Receiving help is one way of working together.

A modern interpretation for this story

A question to take with you

Can I comfortably ask for the kind of help I readily offer other people?

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About the source and this adaptation

In Berakhot 5b:10–13, Rabbi Yohanan visits and helps a sick student, then receives Rabbi Hanina's help when he himself is ill. A comparison follows about needing another person's help to get free of a difficult situation. This fictional cleanup story draws on that mutual support. Jin, Ara, the tasks and all dialogue are invented. The source's visits to the sick and recovery are not presented as modern treatments; holding a hand or accepting help is not said to cure disease.

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