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The Step After an Apology

After saying sorry, there was still a way of acting to change.

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After the praise, Jin thought he had a very good eye.
Jin

Everyone says my direction board looks good.

After the praise, Jin thought he had a very good eye.

He had not asked about the time or thought behind it.
Story

As soon as he saw his colleague's drawing, Jin mocked their skill.

He had not asked about the time or thought behind it.

The colleague's quiet voice brought Jin's laughter to a stop.
New colleague

I revised it several times before bringing it here.

The colleague's quiet voice brought Jin's laughter to a stop.

He named what he had done, without calling it a joke.
Jin

I mocked your skill without asking about the effort you put in. What I said was wrong. I'm sorry.

He named what he had done, without calling it a joke.

Jin stepped back instead of asking for another answer.
New colleague

I'd like some time to sort things out on my own.

Jin stepped back instead of asking for another answer.

When he asked a little later, his colleague nodded.
Jin

May I also correct what I said in front of the others?

When he asked a little later, his colleague nodded.

He acknowledged his wrongdoing clearly in front of the others, too.
Jin

My comment earlier was disrespectful. I judged carelessly.

He acknowledged his wrongdoing clearly in front of the others, too.

At the next workshop, Jin began with a question before an opinion.
Jin

I'd like to hear what you had in mind when you drew it.

At the next workshop, Jin began with a question before an opinion.

A thought from the Talmud

Be supple like a reed: learn to acknowledge your mistakes and change your conduct.

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Taanit 20a:16–20b:3 · Read the source ↗

A lesson for today

An apology includes acknowledging what we did wrong and changing our conduct so it does not happen again. We can respect the space and choices someone needs to recover, without pressing them to answer or forgive immediately.

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A question to take with you

After apologizing, what have I actually changed about my conduct?

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About the source and this adaptation

Taanit 20a:16–20b:3 tells of Rabbi Elazar, who grew proud of his learning, insulted another person's appearance, then recognized his wrongdoing and apologized. It also teaches being supple like a reed. This adaptation replaces the insult about appearance with a careless judgment of a colleague's drawing. Although the source includes a crowd urging forgiveness, this story focuses on respecting the person's space and choices and changing one's conduct. Jin, Ara, the colleague, the workshop and all dialogue are fictional.

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