Jin was about to post the news in a group chat, but first made space for one person to hear it quietly. They sat across from each other. Jin explained what had happened in clear words and waited for the other person to ask a question. When we have difficult news to share, we can think about where and how the other person will hear it as well as what we’ll say.
A modern interpretation for this story
A question to take with you
If I had difficult news to share, what setting would give the other person room to pause and ask questions?
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About the source and this adaptation
In the Babylonian Talmud, Pesachim 3b:13, Rabbi Yehoshua son of Rav Idi is sent to see how Rav Kahana is doing and finds that he has died. He tears his garment, turns the tear to the back, and returns weeping. When the others ask whether Rav Kahana has died, he answers indirectly and cites Proverbs 10:18. The wisdom line paraphrases his return. The choir story, in which the news is spoken plainly, is modern fiction created with AI assistance.
